It’s nomination
season for the Anthony Awards, which got me to thinking about Bouchercon. Not
that I need much prodding. It’s the primary event on my annual calendar. I got
to chatting with a fan who’s also a friend of The Beloved Spouse on Facebook,
and started looking at it from a different perspective.
Readers are, by and
large, introverts. By definition, introverts expend energy around other people
and recharge their supply when alone. That doesn’t mean introverts don’t like
other people, though we may be somewhat more discerning than extroverts when it
comes to who we choose to be around. It’s not that we don’t like spending time
around people who share an interest, but we’d have to leave the house to meet
them and that cuts into our reading time.*
Bouchercon is the
perfect place for such a person. True, it’s close to two thousand people in
relatively confined quarters, but it’s not just that. It’s hundreds of people
who are geeked up about the same thing you are, and are often hungry for other
to talk to about it. Even better, it’s not just the thousand-plus like-minded
readers you’ll see: you’ll also be tripping over the people who write the books
you’ll so revved up about. What could be better than that?
They’re glad to see
you, too. I’ve been to seven Bouchercons in the nine years since I discovered
them. I’ve made friends there, cemented acquaintances with people I came to
know online, and have created enough of a footprint myself that some people
actually recognize me now. I have never once been treated other than civilly,
and far more often than not people have gone out of their way to be friendly.**
It can be an
expense, but it’s a bargain compared to many other conferences. The conference
fee itself is always reasonable and I’m constantly surprised when I see the
room rate the committee gets at the host hotel. The only complaint I’ve had is
the hotels rarely appreciate how much readers and writers drink and fail to put
enough additional staff on the bar. Doesn’t mean I don’t socialize; I just don’t
drink as much. The hotel’s loss is my liver’s gain.
So, dear readers,
if you’re curious to see what over a thousand readers and several hundred crime
fiction writers look like in the wild, there’s no better place to find out than
Bouchercon.
* -- The Sole Heir
was pre-teen when my tenure at Castle Voldemort ended and I was the classic
single divorced father again. We used to have this conversation fairly often:
TSH: Do you ever go
out?
Me: Not much.
TSH: Why not?
Me: If I go out I’m
going to see a lot of people I don’t know.
TSH: What’s wrong
with that?
Me: I hate people I
don’t know.
After a year or so
she came up with the next question in that conversation.
TSH: Why do you
hate people you don’t know?
Me: It saves time.
** -- My favorite
Bouchercon story. Baltimore, 2008. My virgin appearance. Standing on the
walkway between hotels with Peter Rozovsky, one of about three people I
actually knew then. He asked was I having a good time.
Me: Sort of.
PR: What’s wrong?
Me: I don’t really
know anyone here. (See above statement about people I don’t know.)
PR: (Looks around)
Do you know Scott Phillips?
Me: I know who he
is….
PR: (Waving) Scott!
Come here a second! (Scott Phillips comes over.) Scott, this is Dana King.
Dana, this is Scott Phillips. He wrote The
Ice Harvest.
SP: (Extends hand)
Hi, Dana.
(We chat for five
minutes and Scott has to go to a panel.)
PR: See? Now you
know Scott Phillips.
One year later.
Indianapolis. I’m on the periphery of the crowd at the bar looking for anyone I know. I see Scott with a group
of people, but he’s someone I’ve met
for five minutes a year ago, not someone I know.
Scott notices me and waves me over.
SP: Dana, we’re going
to get something to eat. You want to come?
That’s what
Bouchercon is like. If in doubt, go. Look me up. Mention this post and your drink
is on me. I’m not paying for it. I’m just clumsy when I get excited.
Funny, I just registered for Bouchercon last night, and I agree with everything you say. It can be overwhelming at times, but there is such a vast amount of good will there. Even among all us curmudgeons.
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